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  • #49629

    Marlon Brando
    Participant

    How to deal with people who are not responding ?Even they don’t bother to say “thank you” for sharing stuff with them.
    Do we have to accept this “ugly” human behaviour or what?
    Thanks & Regards  

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    #169867

    Ameer Costarica
    Participant

    Just ignore them and continue sharing with others.Don’t let them frustrate you

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    #169869

    Saddam Hussein
    Member

    As you said this is the natural human character,so you have to accept that,or otherwise “don’t share your stuff with such “ugly” persons .
    My 2 cent 

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    #169870

    Adam L Bowden
    Participant

    what “kind of stuff” did you share that made them non-responsive.If you caught something then shared it with others they might not be
    too impressed :^(Adam

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    #169872

    Mike Carnell
    Participant

    Marlon Brando,
    You put stuff up here for yourself and the satisfaction you are doing it for an intrinsic benefit, self actualization, or whatever psychobable term someone wants to apply. Anything you get back from other people is a bonus.
    If you are doing this because you want all kinds of praise and thanks then you have an unrealistic expectation. This is your issue not theirs.
    How to deal with them. You can’t. Nobody on here has any obligation to live up to your expectation. If that bothers you stop participating.
    Just my opinion.

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    #169874

    Brandon
    Participant

    Aahhh…feel the love!

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    #169875

    Vallee
    Participant

    Cookies and milk at noon, and a hug before my nap. Plus I got another gold smiley face on my reward chart. What else can anyone want in life?

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    #169877

    Mike Carnell
    Participant

    HF Chris Vallee and Brandon,
    I have no clue what either of those comments mean.
    It seems pretty needy to do something and rely on someone else thanking you to have some level of validation.
    Just my opinion.

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    #169880

    Brandon
    Participant

    I agree Mike. I was kidding MB for looking for that.
    This ain’t the place.

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    #169882

    Mike Carnell
    Participant

    Thank you for the clarification. The original post is pretty consistent with MB odd view of the world.
    Just my opinion.

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    #169883

    Vallee
    Participant

    Same as Brandon, making light of the need of Brando for external reward for self gratification… behavior modification at the elementary school level. One can enlighten people with a joke. People should post to help and while not admitted frequently to learn themselves.

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    #169885

    Mike Carnell
    Participant

    HF & Brandon,
    I must be really thick tonight. Sorry for being so slow.
    Regards

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    #169886

    Vallee
    Participant

    Put a gold smiley on your chart… good job.

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    #169888

    Marlon Brando
    Participant

    Mike
    As usual a great opinion.Thank You

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    #169890

    Marlon Brando
    Participant

    Mike
    Have always great respect for your wise opinion.
    One clarification:It is not an “odd” view as you have explained ,I just say always: who cares?I enjoy sharing stuff with people.Wanted only to trigger a debate to discuss “human nature”,that is all.
    thanks and regards

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    #169891

    Marlon Brando
    Participant

    Mike
    Please suggest to me a “free” Forum ,where I can post some stuff (that I have prepared).
    Thanks & Regards

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    #169896

    jain
    Participant

    Marlon,Why don’t you take the same approach as many other people – set up your own website? You can then post your material and ask visitors to leave comments.That way, if you neglect to ask people permission to send them material and they neglect to thank you – no one will feel ugly – God forbid!

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    #169900

    Malron Brando
    Participant

    Great Advice.
    Thank You Pooh

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    #169911

    Alphen
    Participant

    Hi,
    We are sharing our knowledge with others who need them. If some body is not showing appreciation on receipt of such knowledge, only they should feel ashamed of it and in no way you should feel for it. You continue to do sharing without expecting any return from them.
     Cheers!
    Alphen

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